{"id":2162,"date":"2014-03-14T05:01:41","date_gmt":"2014-03-14T09:01:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/juliesondradecker.com\/?page_id=2162"},"modified":"2026-05-26T13:23:24","modified_gmt":"2026-05-26T17:23:24","slug":"buy","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/juliesondradecker.com\/?page_id=2162","title":{"rendered":"Purchase"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2>THE INVISIBLE ORIENTATION: An Introduction to Asexuality<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-2560 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/juliesondradecker.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/newcover-198x300.jpg\" alt=\"newcover\" width=\"198\" height=\"300\" border=\"1\" srcset=\"https:\/\/juliesondradecker.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/newcover-198x300.jpg 198w, https:\/\/juliesondradecker.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/newcover.jpg 314w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 198px) 100vw, 198px\" \/><strong>Skyhorse Publishing\/Carrel Books, Sept. 2014<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Hardcover: ISBN-10: 1631440020 \/ ISBN-13: 978-1631440021<br \/>\nPaperback: ISBN-10: 1634502434 \/<br \/>\nISBN-13: 978-1634502436<br \/>\nKindle: ASIN: B00MSYUXOO<br \/>\nAudio: ASIN B00MR9SJJG<br \/>\n<\/strong><strong>Japanese Translation: ISBN-10: 4750348147 \/ ISBN-13: 978-4750348148<br \/>\nFrench Translation: ISBN-13: 979-1097154783<br \/>\n<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Buy: [<a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Invisible-Orientation-Introduction-Asexuality-Generation\/dp\/1634502434\/\">Amazon<\/a>] [<a href=\"http:\/\/www.audible.com\/pd?asin=B00MRAFWVS&amp;source_code=AUDORWS0818149AKY\">Audible (audio book)<\/a>] [<a href=\"https:\/\/www.barnesandnoble.com\/w\/the-invisible-orientation-julie-sondra-decker\/1136801742\">Barnes &amp; 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Includes an introduction written by me.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<h2>DRUNK MONKEYS ANTHOLOGY: Volume 3, March 2016<\/h2>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/juliesondradecker.com\/?attachment_id=3093\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-3093\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-3093\" src=\"https:\/\/juliesondradecker.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/drunkmonkeys-210x300.jpg\" alt=\"drunkmonkeys\" width=\"198\" height=\"282\" srcset=\"https:\/\/juliesondradecker.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/drunkmonkeys-210x300.jpg 210w, https:\/\/juliesondradecker.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/drunkmonkeys.jpg 350w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 198px) 100vw, 198px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>Marginalia Publishing, March 2016<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Paperback: ISBN-10: 153048054X \/ ISBN-13: 978-1530480548<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Kindle: B01D96YO3K<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Buy: <\/strong>[<a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Drunk-Monkeys-Anthology-Anthologies\/dp\/153048054X\">Amazon<\/a>] [<a href=\"http:\/\/www.drunkmonkeys.us\/bookstore\/\">Drunk Monkeys Bookstore<\/a>]\n<p><strong>Add: <\/strong>[<a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/book\/show\/29580871-drunk-monkeys-anthology-volume-3\">Goodreads<\/a>]\n<p>The best fiction and poetry featured over the past year in the online literary journal <em>Drunk Monkeys<\/em>.\u00a0 Includes my short piece \u201cAsexual, Aromantic, Partnerless, Childless \u2013 and Happy.\u201d<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Drunk-Monkeys-Anthology-Anthologies\/dp\/153048054X\">Drunk Monkeys Volume 3<\/a> (Anthology, March 2016)<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.drunkmonkeys.us\/non-fiction\/2015\/1\/28\/asexual-aromantic-partnerless-childless-and-happy\">Drunk Monkeys, February 25<\/a> (Free online version, February 2015)<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/everydayfeminism.com\/2015\/04\/asexual-aromantic-happy\/\">Everyday Feminism reprint<\/a> (Free online version, April 2015)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<hr \/>\n<h2>SPOON KNIFE: Volume 7,\u00a0<em>Transitions<\/em>, March 2023<\/h2>\n<div>\n<div style=\"text-align: left;\">\n<div style=\"text-align: left;\">\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-3931 alignleft\" src=\"https:\/\/juliesondradecker.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/spoonknife7-662x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"181\" height=\"280\" srcset=\"https:\/\/juliesondradecker.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/spoonknife7-662x1024.jpg 662w, https:\/\/juliesondradecker.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/spoonknife7-194x300.jpg 194w, https:\/\/juliesondradecker.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/spoonknife7-768x1188.jpg 768w, https:\/\/juliesondradecker.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/spoonknife7.jpg 828w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 181px) 100vw, 181px\" \/><strong>Autonomous Press, March 2023<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Paperback: ISBN-10: 1945955406 \/ ISBN-13: 978-1945955402<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Kindle: B0BYZWS7RL<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Buy: <\/strong>[<a href=\"https:\/\/autonomous-press.myshopify.com\/products\/spoon-knife-7-transitions\">Autonomous Press Bookstore<\/a>] [<a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Spoon-Knife-Transitions-Nick-Walker\/dp\/1945955406\/\">Amazon Paperback<\/a>] [<a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Spoon-Knife-Transitions-Nick-Walker-ebook\/dp\/B0BYZWS7RL\/\">Amazon Kindle<\/a>] [<a href=\"https:\/\/www.barnesandnoble.com\/w\/spoon-knife-7-nick-walker\/1143066853\">Barnes &amp; Noble Paperback<\/a>] [<a href=\"https:\/\/www.barnesandnoble.com\/w\/spoon-knife-7-nick-walker\/1143066853\">Barnes &amp; Noble eBook<\/a>]\n<p><strong>Add: <\/strong>[<a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/book\/show\/123857845-spoon-knife-7\">Goodreads<\/a>]\n<p>Tales of transition and initiation, of life-changing encounters and moments of choice, of people who stumble into unexpected love or weird magic or designer lawn scams. The seventh volume of the annual Spoon Knife neuroqueer lit anthology features mind-bending stories from 19 authors.\u00a0Includes my short story \u201cHer Experiment.\u201d Description: A young man whose fianc\u00e9e is obsessed with finding out one of his secrets has to decide whether he can still marry someone who&#8217;s willing to destroy his life to get answers.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<hr \/>\n<h2>AFTER DINNER CONVERSATION: Volume 3, November 2020, or Conversation Series<\/h2>\n<table border=\"0\">\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td><a style=\"margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/After-Dinner-Conversation-Season-Three-ebook\/dp\/B08M6G6NHB\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/1.bp.blogspot.com\/-sSpE1a_z5ko\/X6HBjDI7kqI\/AAAAAAAAH44\/bEX1aJApnvAKScKWpu2BnUYphkDNMegwACNcBGAsYHQ\/w133-h200\/afterdinnervol3.jpg\" width=\"133\" height=\"200\" border=\"0\" data-original-height=\"500\" data-original-width=\"333\" \/><\/a><\/td>\n<td><a style=\"margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/After-Dinner-Conversation-Magazine-November-ebook\/dp\/B08HQT5CSL\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/1.bp.blogspot.com\/-lSJi6742fnI\/X6HBovLEQNI\/AAAAAAAAH48\/R5zbn4GcGXUHS4MH8iYJJ4i0xeQTQsPhwCNcBGAsYHQ\/w133-h200\/afterdinnernov2020.jpg\" width=\"133\" height=\"200\" border=\"0\" data-original-height=\"500\" data-original-width=\"333\" \/><\/a><\/td>\n<td><a style=\"margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Everyones-Gay-Space-Dinner-Conversation-ebook\/dp\/B08FRHYXYJ\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/1.bp.blogspot.com\/-ewgMCw4iVu4\/X6HB6PpSCYI\/AAAAAAAAH5I\/p8ogfZLx8T8gdq9Vf2RlUL_iwxoST1p8QCNcBGAsYHQ\/w133-h200\/everyonesgay.jpg\" width=\"133\" height=\"200\" border=\"0\" data-original-height=\"346\" data-original-width=\"230\" \/><\/a><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<div><i style=\"font-size: x-large;\">Short story &#8220;Everyone&#8217;s Gay in Space&#8221;<\/i><\/div>\n<div>\n<div style=\"text-align: left;\">Published in <i>After Dinner Conversation <\/i>in November 2020. Description: &#8220;Douglas Junior goes to lunch with his successful, gay, astronaut clone.&#8221; You can get it three ways:<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: left;\">\n<ul style=\"text-align: left;\">\n<li>\n<div style=\"text-align: left;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/After-Dinner-Conversation-Season-Three-ebook\/dp\/B08M6G6NHB\/\">After Dinner Conversation Season 3<\/a> (Anthology, February 2021)<\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/li>\n<li>\n<div style=\"text-align: left;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/After-Dinner-Conversation-Magazine-November-ebook\/dp\/B08HQT5CSL\/\">After Dinner Conversation November 2020<\/a> (November issue only, November 2020)<\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/li>\n<li>\n<div style=\"text-align: left;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Everyones-Gay-Space-Dinner-Conversation-ebook\/dp\/B08FRHYXYJ\/\">Everyone&#8217;s Gay in Space<\/a> (Individual story only, November 2020)<\/div>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n<hr \/>\n<h2>TIMELESS TALES: Issue #2, June 2014<\/h2>\n<table border=\"0\">\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td><a style=\"margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/gp\/product\/B07WNYKQGD\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/1.bp.blogspot.com\/-vHPMQUJl-vI\/X6HGv7dyytI\/AAAAAAAAH5U\/94FS38HbXjEmI_PzH7mezi0rn7nLdoITgCNcBGAsYHQ\/w118-h200\/timelesstalesvol2.jpg\" width=\"118\" height=\"200\" border=\"0\" data-original-height=\"500\" data-original-width=\"293\" \/><\/a><\/td>\n<td><a style=\"margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.timelesstalesmagazine.com\/pandoras-box\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/1.bp.blogspot.com\/-YiYdT9NHCgc\/X6HG6XZN4wI\/AAAAAAAAH5Y\/tYRpLyB7U8UXGyjjzAgPGIaZeTZhfJxSgCNcBGAsYHQ\/w154-h200\/yourtermscover.jpg\" width=\"154\" height=\"200\" border=\"0\" data-original-height=\"765\" data-original-width=\"588\" \/><\/a><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<div style=\"font-size: x-large;\"><i>Short Story &#8220;Your Terms&#8221;<\/i><\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: left;\">\n<p>Published in\u00a0<i>Timeless Tales\u00a0<\/i>in\u00a0June 2014. Description: A modern Pandora&#8217;s Box retelling in which Hope is an agoraphobia sufferer. You can get it two ways:<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: left;\">\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/gp\/product\/B07WNYKQGD\">Your Terms Volume 2<\/a>\u00a0(Anthology, August 2019)<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.timelesstalesmagazine.com\/pandoras-box\">Timeless Tales: Pandora&#8217;s Box<\/a> (Free online version, June 2014, begins page 79)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>THE INVISIBLE ORIENTATION: An Introduction to Asexuality Skyhorse Publishing\/Carrel Books, Sept. 2014 Hardcover: ISBN-10: 1631440020 \/ ISBN-13: 978-1631440021 Paperback: ISBN-10: 1634502434 \/ ISBN-13: 978-1634502436 Kindle: ASIN: B00MSYUXOO Audio: ASIN B00MR9SJJG Japanese Translation: ISBN-10: 4750348147 \/ ISBN-13: 978-4750348148 French Translation: ISBN-13: 979-1097154783 Buy: [Amazon] [Audible (audio book)] [Barnes &amp; Noble] [Bol] [Book Depository (USA)]\u00a0[Books-A-Million] [Amazon Japan] [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"parent":0,"menu_order":6,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","template":"","meta":{"footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-2162","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/juliesondradecker.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/2162","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/juliesondradecker.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/juliesondradecker.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/juliesondradecker.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/juliesondradecker.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2162"}],"version-history":[{"count":10,"href":"https:\/\/juliesondradecker.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/2162\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4192,"href":"https:\/\/juliesondradecker.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/2162\/revisions\/4192"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/juliesondradecker.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2162"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}