Publishing Confections:
(I get a cupcake every time I sell a short piece; a donut every time I am nominated for an award; and a whole cake for a book!)
- “A Shadow to Light” sold to The Mystic’s Pen
- “The Wagon” sold to Space Ace
- “Karma Is Dead” sold to Longer Worlds
- “For the Record” sold to Overtime
- “Aquarius” sold to Common Bonds 3
- “Her Experiment” sold to Spoon Knife
- “Everyone’s Gay in Space” sold to After Dinner Conversation
- “On the Inside” sold to James Gunn’s Ad Astra
- “Asexual, Aromantic, Partnerless, Childless – and Happy” to Drunk Monkeys
- THE INVISIBLE ORIENTATION sold to Skyhorse
- THE INVISIBLE ORIENTATION sold to Skyhorse
- Silver Medal in the 2015 IPPY Awards
- Nominated: Foreword Reviews INDIEFAB Book of the Year Award, 2015
- Nominated: Lambda Awards, 2015
- Won Next Generation Indie Book Award in the LGBT
- “Enjoy Your Houseful of Cats” sold to The Toast
- “Her Mother’s Child” sold to Kaleidotrope
- “Your Terms” sold to Timeless Tales
Writing-related fun photos:
- Novel in progress!
- Fictional character!
- Misty eyes during a sad scene
- Kinda losing it
- Working during a blackout
- Rereading with popcorn
- Chicago Manual
- Always writing
- Imagine Plaque
- The End, finished a novel
- Coffee cup with my comic logo
- Fairy Writing Muse
- Sleep writing!
- Editing geek shirt
- Even on vacation, no breaks
- Five years of webcomics
- A grueling edit
- Celebrating a book deal
- Shirt for Novelists
- My First Advance Check
- Signing First Pub Contract
- Writer’s Market Check-In
- Prolific journaler
- The Invisible Orientation in Japanese
- Journaling
- Being Aro is out
- Don’t eat royalties directly
- Blurbed Ace and Aro Journeys
- Print layout–edit time!
- Second contract
- Spoon Knife: Transitions



























































The only thing I know and see is that you are a beautiful and charming WOMAN.
We have options. Free will. Who knows if one day you wake up in the morning and change everything.
I think that all of this is a storm in a teacup.
Good luck! God bless you!
Every day is certainly a new mystery. Moses. I am not sure what the reference to me changing is about–if it’s suggesting that I will want something else in my romantic life suddenly and in a way that is unprecedented in my 35 years, I think that’s a misleading and inappropriate suggestion, but in my community we do our best to acknowledge fluidity and I don’t make dogmatic statements. Please read my article Asexuality and Sexual Fluidity if you’re interested in this matter.
Read her book. It will enlighten much about asexuality, but also about your own sexual experiences.